About Mistress Aja

i am the girl next door with the innocent face but your gut tells you there’s something more…

I am an Asian Dominatrix based in NYC. Mischievous and meticulous; I am exquisite at learning about a person and how to take them apart to be remolded into my ideal. I enjoy teasing my subs in both humiliatingly mean and playful, lighthearted ways. It depends on the spice level you bring out of me.  I can be quite mercurial, saying thank you on an exhale and threatening you on the next inhale.  Moving in and out of a strict to sensual disposition comes to me naturally and with ease.  As a creative and sexually dominant woman, I thoroughly enjoy verbally teasing my subs and physically trapping them in different predicaments.  Your desperation satisfies my kinky brain. You will revel in relinquishing your control to me.

Creativity pulses through me and I value crafting a world with someone that will be a devoted worshiper to that vision.  Collaboration in any dynamic is vital; when the energy is flowing between us, the outside world melts away.  I value the deep psychological spaces we reach when we are true to our desires.  For that, I prefer to build relationships with submissives who are looking for a long-term dynamic and desire a genuine power exchange.  Building a relationship enriches the quality of our time together and apart. I am open to individuals of all races, religions, sexualities, and gender expressions.  I do not play with those who are rude, push boundaries, or are unwilling to screen.

Safety, consent, and communication are of upmost importance to me.